Quinn has a best friend, his cousin Nate. Nate lives 2.5 hrs away, and they don't get to hang out as much as they would like. Sometimes Quinn likes to pretend that Nate is up playing toys with him. I will hear Quinn talking to Nate as though he is in the room, such as:
"Nate, you get to use the blue car, and I get the red car"
"Nate, don't climb up on the table"
"Mom, don't forget to give Nate a snack"
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Well, lately this has developed into Nate being such a bad influence on Quinn, that i have to rethink their friendship. For example, Quinn wanted to watch a video, but when I went to play it, I discovered it had a scratch. When I mentioned to Quinn that he must have been playing with the movie (he is not allowed to touch the movies), he said that Nate did it.
When we were in the basement, and Quinn made a big mess, he didn't want to clean up his toys. I asked him to clean up, and he said Nate messed up the toys.
On an occasion that I heard a cry from Charlie, and went to investigate, she was lying on her back, and not happy. Quinn was standing nearby saying "shhh, shhh" holding her favorite stuffed puppy. I asked what happened, and he said Nate took the puppy from Charlie, and she fell over.
That is only a few examples of how Nate is being a bad example. Judge for yourself...
Now that Nate's real visit is getting close, Quinn has been saying that Nate will come and share Quinn's toys, and they will play, and will not fight at all. Ha! We will wait and see how long that lasts!